You meet someone fascinating at a conference. Six months later, you run into them again, but all you can remember is that they wore glasses. You've lost the chance to ask about their specific hobby or that project they were passionate about.

The Philosophy: The Anti-Social Network

Social networks are about broadcasting; this template is about receiving. It allows you to build a private, detailed understanding of the people in your orbit. It’s not creepy; it’s attentive. In a world of superficial connections, remembering that someone is "allergic to peanuts" or "loves 80s synth-pop" sets you apart.

The Blueprint: Character Architecture

This template is structured like a character sheet in a role-playing game, but for real life.

  • The First Impression: The Place first met and Introduced by fields establish the context. Was it a formal introduction or a chance encounter? This context often defines the boundaries of the relationship.
  • The Trait Matrix: With extensive lists for Good traits and Bad traits, you move beyond "nice." You can specify if someone is "Ambitious" but "Impatient," or "Generous" but "Forgetful." This nuance helps in navigating complex social or professional waters.
  • The Rating System: It sounds cold, but rating attributes like Reliable or Helpful is invaluable. When you need help moving a couch, you sort by "Helpful." When you need a secret kept, you sort by "Trustworthy."

Usage Scenarios: The Connector

You are the person who introduces people. A friend mentions they need a bassist for their band. You don't just scroll through your phone; you open Memento, filter by Music, check for "Bass guitar" in Special talents, and ensure their Reliable score is above 4.0. You make the connection, and you look like a genius.

Power Feature: Voice Memos

The Voice sample field is underutilized. Use it to record the correct pronunciation of a difficult name immediately after meeting someone. Or, discreetly record a snippet of them talking about their passion. Listening to it before your next meeting brings their personality back into focus instantly.